And guess, what? i didn’t dump him. There are a lot of people who don’t communicate that explicitly about their sexual preferences, even with a new partner who’s inexperienced, and it’s possible things will be more intuitive than you think they’ll be. If you want to know how women like me think, then you might want to listen to me. I said that life is sucky. Honestly, i’d be a lot more concerned about your feeling of foolishness than about being a virgin. Excuse me if my expressions are not perfect, english is not my native tongue. I suspect that you might be bringing some hostility and defensiveness, based on the belief that you’re being treated unfairly, into your interactions with women.
Milfs taking mens virginity. 1 out of 10 who cannot enjoy sex and relationships, while 9 out of 10 experience it. Like i said before, my only point being, it’s not entirely as simple as the article seems to suggest in all cases. Personally, as much as i understand the logic of positive reinforcement, to a guy who’s my age a statement like that sounds like ridicule, however caring and positive it may be intended, and i have no doubt that you mean very well and are trying to inspire hope in the hopeless, try to make them see that there’s more to live and to themselves than that perceived gaping hole in their biography. The few situations where i’ve dealt with training someone else i tend to kind of bend over backwards to be helpful because i don’t want to make the other person feel the way i would feel in that situation (although i realize that most normal people probably wouldn’t feel that way anyway). Yes, i would like to be with a woman whom i feel physically attracted to and mentally attracted to.
Hence, we have a gendered (and heteronormative) conception of virginity: it’s embarrassing for men to be virgins and they should try to have sex as soon as possible, but virginity is a prize for women and the longer a girl keeps her chaste state the more admirable she is. It has fallen off the tree and gotten all mushy.